Code of Conduct for Professional Engagement with Mentors
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Schedule Meetings Appropriately: Initially, plan to schedule appointments for meetings. As your relationship develops, you may ask if it’s appropriate to reach out with questions outside of scheduled times.
- Be Respectful Of Your Mentor's Time: Life happens, and sometimes plans change. If you need to cancel or reschedule a meeting, be sure to communicate with your mentor in advance—never miss a meeting without notifying them.
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Choose Professional Meeting Locations: Whenever possible, meet in public or professional settings, such as campus meeting rooms. Avoid meeting in bars, residence halls, or private apartments.
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Avoid Offering or Accepting Rides: Given the walkable nature of campus and the surrounding area, transportation should rarely be necessary. Politely decline if your mentor offers a ride, and avoid offering rides to your mentor.
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Keep Interactions Professional: Focus meetings on professional development and skill-building. Avoid social or recreational outings such as going for drinks or hikes, and refrain from discussing topics such as partying or personal social activities.
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Dress Appropriately: Wear professional or business casual attire when meeting in person or participating in virtual meetings.
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Use Professional Greetings: Greet your mentor with a handshake rather than a hug.
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Address Your Mentor Respectfully: Use your mentor’s first name unless they indicate a preference for a different form of address.
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Seek Support from Campus Resources: For personal matters (e.g., dating, family, or financial issues), utilize appropriate on-campus support services rather than discussing them with your mentor.
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Be Mindful of Social Media Etiquette: Treat social media interactions with your mentor as you would with a potential employer. Respect their preferences and maintain a professional tone in all communications.
These guidelines will help you build a respectful, professional, and mutually beneficial relationship with your mentor.